I recently got this idea from adunni’s blog and i for once wondered what i will write if nature by any reason would allow me to write my younger self a letter. I will consider this piece a letter to my younger myself while i was 17. Here it is anyway:
Dear Young Gbenga, While i will congratulate you on your success as one of the best student in your school, i won’t but point out the fact that in the next couple of years, you will be faced with challenges of life. Challenges, young Gbenga is what i consider to be the essence of life. challenges ranging from finances, relationship, family ties and responsibilites, Goals setting in terms of Education. Knowing you fully well, my dear, i consider you to be a control freak who is not well organised.
i know as well that you are a brilliant chap who can sometimes be very lazy. All this weak points needs to be adressed and here are some few tips that i think, will help you out.Â
1. Avoid procrastination. Do what you have to do at the right time. Remember, early to bed, early to rise. You should put away the habit of postponing your assignments, your personal studies etc. it will affect your attitude towards more life pressing issues that concern you in the future.Â
2. Hard work does not kill a man, you have to stem up, remember, you are limted in resources financially. Make the best use of the money you earn working hard to fund all those goals and dreams you’ve always had at the back of your mind.Â
3.While i know that there is a girl you now fancy (you do don’t you?), it would be in your best interest to take it slow. While you are madly in love, i suggest you cool your head down and set your priorities right.Â
Falling in love is no crime, but its not a priority, i mean at least for now. Put other pressing issues forward first and let relationship come after.Â
4. Keep up your brilliancy, and don’t forget to improve on your arithmetic skills. you have a very bad arithmetic thinking ability, but like i earlier said, Hard work pays, and through working hard, you can be the best maths student.Â
5. Lastly, Be yourself. Doing you, should be what will get you where you going. Don’t try to copy someone else. You are a unique personality and nothing should stop you from been yourself. All this that i have summed are wise words that i feel you should ponder upon. Meditate upon it and it will make your path straight.Â
Your older self,
 Olugbenga